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The Otis Diaries
5/18/09:
Sorry for the belated update. We have much to tell. Most of it good!
We’re a little overwhelmed by the response of Otis’ fan club. We’re basking in
the very kind comments, though I’m not sure how deserving we are of the words.
For the first couple of weeks, Otis never left our side when outside (which
lulled us into a false sense of security.) But as he feels more comfortable he
is getting bolder. So, a week ago Sunday, in a split second, Otis took off up
the street. I caught up to him and was coaxing him into the car when a neighbor
approached and asked if this was our dog. I said yes, that we were fostering
him. Then he told me that Otis had grabbed onto his pant leg. As it turned out,
the neighbor was mowing his lawn (and we all know about Otis and lawnmowers.)
It seems the neighbor may have kicked him to get him away from the lawnmower.
The result: torn pant leg and very minor bruising on his shin. But the neighbor,
whom we’ve known for years, was not nice about the event. We paid for his torn
pants, but were very disappointed (though I guess not surprised) by this
negative reaction; we thought this individual would have had more empathy. At
the same time, it sobers us to the jeopardy that Otis is in with his special
needs, and the jeopardy that all Pit Bulls are in, in general.
So we’re significantly enlarging our kennel into a full backyard area, something
that we’ve been planning to do even before Otis moved in. Now have a reason to
re-prioritize the project. We have friends visiting us from out of town, and
they're helping us with the fence raising!
In response to all the wonderful offers of help coming from Otis' fans, I would
ask for this: please double and triple your efforts to advocate on behalf of Pit
Bulls and every other breed that has been deemed "vicious." I wonder who would
have mistreated, then abandoned such a wonderful soul as Otis. It occurs to me
that perhaps it was someone who wanted an aggressive, fearless dog and when Otis
couldn't be made into one, he was discarded. I've often thought Maya may have
been discarded because she was too small: 38 pounds.
The tragedy is that if the average family no longer chooses the Pit Bull for
their family dog because they have bought into the bad press, either directly
(meaning they believe it) or indirectly (meaning they are intimidated by what
their friends and neighbors will think,) then the only people who will own Pit
Bulls will be the very people who have brought on this nightmare. And if our
Humane Societies destroy the animals that those people have abandoned, then
aren't they are actually killing off the best of the breed??
Back
to Otis, I think we have reached that point where Otis now wakes up in the
morning and feels secure that everything is OK, just the way it was when he went
to sleep the night before. The result is much less spinning and much less
anxiety barking. And the ongoing changes aren't just about Otis. Maya and Lucy
continue to become calmer and more accepting.
We’re starting to see another side of Otis coming out: the mischievous side. We
speculate this may mean that he is feeling more comfortable and, therefore, is
showing more of his playful side. He and Lucy have learned to play well
together: if Otis gets a little too rowdy, she gives him a brief correction and
he backs off. Maya is a different story: Otis still has this amazing ability to
push Maya’s buttons and when he does, there is almost always a brawl. The good
news is that Dan and I can break them up really quickly now.
Example: one morning last week I was packing up my computer bag when Otis
decided to play tug of war with it. Considering it wasn’t yet closed, this was
not a good thing. My reaction to pull back made it worse, of course, so I called
Dan who was in another part of the house. Naturally, it was Maya who was first
on the scene to “rescue” me, followed closely by Lucy. Bogart took cover in the
closet (the levelest head in this house.) In the end, no blood was shed and no
harm was done, but it was a full-on riot for about 30 seconds. We got the dogs
calmed down, my computer back in its bag and even managed to make it to the
ferry on time.
We're really working on providing exercise. Not just romp-on-the-beach exercise,
but long walks and runs. I discovered Friday that 4 miles is a little further
than Otis is ready (or willing) to walk. He started slowing down after mile 3
and finally came to a HALT about a half mile from home. I mean laid down in the
middle of the road. I literally had to half carry, half drag him to the side of
the road. He didn't seem to be in any distress; he just had had enough walking
for one day. Thankfully, our very kind neighbor, Sally, stopped and gave us a
ride home and once home he miraculously found his second wind!
I want to make a quick note about water. While it is certainly an important
issue, for which one must be aware, making sure Otis gets sufficient water is
NOT an onerous task. We have a milk carton on which Dan has drawn a line
indicating the daily water requirement. Each morning we fill it and dispense it
through the day. Getting him to drink is super easy using the kibble. So here is
my conclusion: anyone who doesn't have the time to pay attention to this detail,
should not adopt Otis or maybe any other dog.
We got the email from Shawndra Michell regarding "Focused Intention."
Interestingly, in just the past couple of days I've been reading one of Cesar
Milan's books where he talks about focusing on the behavior you want vs. the
behavior you don't want. Very powerful, and definitely an area for me to work
on! Now I am constantly thinking about the energy I am projecting and how it is
interpreted. We don't fully understand the concept of Focused Intention, but we
certainly agree that Otis is worthy of being the focus of your first collective
efforts.
Dan met Aaron last week when delivering the crate for the cat show. Turns out
Aaron and his wife were one of Otis' early foster homes. Dan and Aaron had a
great exchange and came to the conclusion that Otis has made amazing progress
since his early days. We think that Otis truly deserves every one of his fans.
5/27/09: Our friends have gone
back to California and we're all settling back into our routines. Thanks to lots
of sweat (and a little blood) on behalf of Dan and friend, Chaz, we now have an
enclosure that is tripled in size and connected to our house. The dogs love it
and the humans are in heaven! No more clandestine jaunts up the hill!
We got Easy-walk harnesses for everyone and took Otis and Maya for a walk on
Sunday. It wasn't quite the slice of Americana we had hoped for. Otis is still
fearful of dogs (size is no factor) and that fear translates into lots of
barking and pulling and growling. Unfortunately, with good weather, there are
LOTS of dogs out in their yards. People who really understand dogs recognize his
behavior as fear and posturing, but the rest see him as a vicious,
unfriendly dog.
We're not yet sure how best to address this. Should we modify our route to avoid
other dogs entirely (at least for now), or will he improve gradually with
exposure? This is an area that we would really welcome some help and advice. Our
approach has generally been: try and stabilize one area before dealing with
another. But sometimes two issues seem to overlap...We know this is absolutely
critical to Otis' happiness and to his acceptance into a neighborhood.
As for stabilizing, Otis is
barking much less. He is a true gentleman around the food dish. His tugging is
now almost gone, and when it still does occur, he can immediately be stopped
with a firm "No." We have been working at making it clear to him what is a toy
and what is not. We're trying an experiment of actually playing tug of war with
him. We know this is a bit controversial: some think it is a great play
activity, others think it causes aggression. Since we've been playing, he seems
to grab less at things that are not his toys. To quote one of the expert
opinions we have found in our research: "Tug-of-war, if played properly, is a
great way to burn off energy while at the same time, teach important rules, such
as when and how the puppy should use his mouth. "
His focus on certain sounds is diminishing: we can run the microwave (with its
loud hum), the stereo (at any volume), even have the smoke detector go off (a
cooking issue - don't ask) with no effect. Distant lawn mower and chain saw
sounds seem now to have little effect (but we want to keep certain sounds
distant and hope to gradually inoculate him to the agitation they have
previously caused). There's some evidence that if Otis actually sees the person
making the sound, his anxiety goes up. We're studying that.
As noted, being around unknown dogs clearly continues to raise his anxiety,
and he is still trying to understand the definition of dog play with Lucy and
Maya. Their interaction continues to improve, but Otis still has two left feet
(or would that be four left feet) much of the time!
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